1. Have a diary for everything you want to do the next day. 2. Have a vision, that would make you more focused . 3. Always say a prayer, it's really uplifting. 4. Always follow your instincts, forget about the past. 5. Always learn to like and love yourself. Nobody has the right to harm your self confidence. 6. Have confidence in yourself. Stop listening to accusing fingers. 7. Always take a stand for your family. Also invest in your relationship. It matters alot on the long run. 8. Always keep yourself happy, been depressed is a sickness and lead to poor health. 9. Develop quality habits of joy and happiness. 10. Always make peace with others and have self control.